A relationship with trust issues, difference in
expectations, incompatible, communication is lacking, abuse, boredom, money
issues and selfishness are on life support.
If these relationships don’t figure a way to correct these issue they
will be dead-on-arrival.
Trust Issues- Lack of trust or loss of trust in a
relationship is very harmful. Without trust the life blood of a relationship
which is security starts seeping out and eventually causes the demise of
it. Trust issues such as jealousy,
infidelity, possessiveness, lack of reliability and dependability will derail a
good relationship so consider honesty whenever lack of trust arises.
Different Expectations- It is not easy for two people to
come together and walk the same walk however, as the newness of a relationship
wears off the need to have a central goal.
Therefore figuring out if each person wants the same thing from the
relationship. Does he/she wants a
Miss/Mr. Right now or do they want a long-term committed relationship. Knowing your partners priorities and
expectations is pretty important in regards to a relationship.
Compatibility Issues- Relationship compatibility includes
intimacy, personality type, how they resolve conflicts. Couples these days have
a lot on their plate and with all these responsibilities and the daily
frustration that comes with them being compatible in how they approach
life. These shared traits will help to
strengthen a relationship when it gets really hard.
Communications Issues- Communication issues is one of the
big reasons that couples break-up and even divorce. Where there is respect you
will find good communication but once the respect is gone then all is left is
contempt and mistrust. Where ever you
find mistrust you will find judgement, resentment, sarcasm and criticism. These negative communications is like a
poison and will kill a relationship really quick.
Abuse/ Life habit abuse Issues- Abuse or life abuse issues
will certainly derail a relationship. The
mistreatment of a person is a negative in any type of relationship. This is also true when it comes to life habit
such as a gambling addiction and substance abuse.
Grown apart/Boredom- A relationship has to be refreshed
frequently to prevent it getting stale or your from partner from getting
bored. Life obligations such as children
and work are coming obstacle that relationships must endure, however as
partners you must remain focus on each other so you don’t become strangers.
Money Issues- The longer a relationship last money comes
into play and financial incompatibility can cause great distress. A couple money issues can tap in fears,
trust, feeling safe, power struggles and control. Learning about how each partner dealings with
money and having a concrete and united plan can help to stem any issues before
they arises.
Selfishness– When your partner only focuses in his or her own
needs and pleasure over their partners needs or for the betterment of the
relationship. When the concern is
excessively place on one person in the relationship eventual it will lead to
feeling of abandonment and the couple will grow apart. Importance must place on
each member of the relationship in order for it to work.
May sure you spend time and energy in maintaining and correcting
whatever issues that arises to ensure that you have a long and lasting
relationship.
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